Are you ever in a situation where you want to say something in English but you don’t have the right words and phrases? Well, today’s conversation focuses on saying no in English in a way that is polite and won’t offend anybody!
1) A quick bit of reading
Read the 3 short conversations in my photo and answer the questions:
- Who do you think is speaking in each conversation (colleagues, friends, strangers, family)?
- What does person A need help with?
- What reason does person B give for not helping?
2) Look at the structure of politely saying no in English:
We tend to give an apology using ‘but’ (e.g. I’d love to but…..) and an excuse/reason. Try to complete the gaps.
- I ________ but I’ve hurt my back.
- Sorry ___________ that.
- I’m ________ __________ rush.
- I’m ____________ I can’t.
- _________________ I would.
- ___________ next time though.
The intonation (pronunciation) and facial expression are also really important in English. We need to look very sorry and have an apologetic tone!! Once you have learnt the phrases above, practise saying them in a mirror or record yourself on your mobile phone to see/hear how you sound. You should look and sound as though you feel very bad that you can’t help!
3) Practise your speaking
Find a friend, flatmate or family member to practise the conversation with. One person is a) and one person is b). Keep going until you can do it without the photo. [Extra challenge – Now write your own short conversation with different help requests and excuses. Practise your new conversation with your partner]
How was it? Leave me a comment below if you liked these phrases for saying no in English. Remember: Next time somebody asks you for help, try to use this structure and these phrases…..and don’t forget your sorry face!